“SUCCESS”
The elusive trophy we all want to win! It is often presented as the ultimate goal in life. But what happens when you are navigating through a world that has a peculiar fondness for measuring accomplishments? The pursuit of achievement, be it personal or professional, is a labyrinth of challenges, triumphs, and the occasional existential crisis.
Have you ever opened Instagram and been bombarded by victory express?
Be it weight loss journeys, financial escapades, or a professional athlete's triumphant moment! Whether it fills you with self-doubt or helps you live vicariously through someone else’s success, it highlights a particularly important fact: Achievements are worth celebrating!
Acknowledging achievements, big or small, propels us forward. It is like having a personal cheerleading squad urging you to conquer the next peak. So, let us investigate the reasons why success is worth celebrating.
The Success Symphony: Why Even Bother?
Recently on New Year’s, social media was flooded with people flaunting their 2023 achievements. It can be a bit of a comparisonitis, but at its core, it is just people wanting to celebrate their victories. And really, what is wrong with that? It is not just about throwing a party for every little thing; it is about validation, motivation, and encouragement.
Our brains love rewards, and celebrating small victories triggers the release of dopamine, boosting mood, motivation, and attention. It is like a little party happening inside your head, and who does not love a good party?
Mindset: The GPS to Success
It all boils down to having a "success mindset." It's not just a phrase; it is what makes ordinary things into something amazing. Imagine this: You're like a trapeze artist in life's circus, swinging from one success to another. The more you enjoy those mid-air flips, the higher you go. It's like saying to the world, "Hey, watch me handle life like a pro!" Sharing these celebrations isn't just showing off. It's a generous act, like giving a treasure map to fellow adventurers. Success is a shared feast that encourages others to enjoy their own victories
Unmasking the Achievement Mirage
"Why do I still feel unsatisfied?" The question that puzzles many, even those who've achieved a lot.
The problem lies in chasing after achievements like a mirage. I recently moved to Canada from India, and it's been a whirlwind of settling in, maintaining good grades, handling chores, and job hunting. What complicates things is the absence of the familiar surroundings of home, friends, and family. There's a sudden lack of external validation, and self-doubt starts to creep in. It's time to break free from this cycle and seek appreciation from within.
Intrinsic Validation the Key to Contentment
Seeking approval from others all the time can make you feel unhappy. Social media makes it look like everyone is enjoying success, feeling confident, motivated, and super happy. Imagine being in a race where everyone wants to reach the finish line of feeling content, but you're unsure if it's even worth getting ready for the race! This is where the idea of intrinsic validation comes in.
Intrinsic validation means finding happiness and satisfaction from inside yourself, not just from what others think. Instead of relying on likes and praises from others on social media, it's about feeling good about your achievements without constantly looking for external approval. When you celebrate your success because it genuinely makes you happy, it's like tying your shoelaces for a race that you're running just for yourself, not to impress others. It's about finding joy in your accomplishments without always needing someone else to pat you on the back.
The Elusive Contentment: Chasing Unicorns or Reality?
Why is it hard to feel content? Imagine success as a magical unicorn; just when you think you have caught it, poof! It turns into a new challenge. The measure of success is ever-changing and dynamic. The dream job you wanted in your 20s might not be so great in your mid-30s. Let us break the idea that achievements are a one-size-fits-all approval. Success is not about being better than others; it is about being better than your past self. Decide to move your life toward success and celebrate the little wins that keep you going.
Your Self-Worth: Not a Byproduct of Achievements
It is crucial to know that your value as a person is not just based on your achievements. The tricky connection between how you see yourself and what you achieve can be confusing. Achievements are important, but they do not determine everything about who you are.
Your self-worth isn't like a stock market chart that goes up and down with every success or failure.
Pause for a moment, change how you see things, and accept that you are important, loved, and bring value to the world. Spend time with your family and friends because they show you how valuable you really are.
Living in the Moment: Success as a Journey
In life, success is not the final stop; it is a journey. Think of it like making a delicious stew – happiness comes from enjoying each step, savouring the smells, and celebrating the little wins that make it all flavourful. So, for my fellow brown girls, take it easy, enjoy the journey, and celebrate those small victories. They are not just markers on the way; they show you are heading in the right direction. Create your standards, let them guide you, and see success unfold like a joyful celebration.
In conclusion, think of success like a bright gem with different sides – celebrating, having a positive mindset, and feeling good about yourself. It's not just about getting to the top; it's about enjoying the whole journey and celebrating each moment. So, let's join the success party, enjoy our achievements, and let everyone see our amazing journey, one celebration at a time!
Success here isn't just one big thing; it's like a collection of small victories, having the right mindset, and staying positive. It's not a final stop but a continuous journey.
By celebrating every step and loving the journey, brown girls not only achieve success but also inspire others. Cheers to the diverse success stories, reminding us that the journey itself is a reason to celebrate.
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